Looking For a Family To Call Her Own...........
WELL GUESS WHAT>>>>>>>>>>>
Friday, July 11, 2008
A Dream Come TrueWe want to thank EVERYONE who advocated for sweet Fen to find a forever family.
Thanks to everyone's efforts, we are so happy to be able to report that a family has chosen her to be their newest daughter.
What a dream come true for this very special little girl who has been waiting so long to be adopted.
There were actually two girls from this orphanage who came out on the shared agency list at the same time.
We were so grateful for the outpouring of support for Fen that we hope the same blessing can be given to her friend Meigan.
Here is a photo of them together from Children's Day.
Fen is on the left in white and Meigan is in red.
Some of you might remember my post from many years ago that talked about us sending a beautiful scrapbook back to one orphanage, with photos of all of the children who had been adopted.
We had worked so hard on the book, and we thought that the aunties would love to see each child, now home in a loving family.
I was making a visit to this orphanage at one point, and the staff finally shared with me that they were concerned about me coming because of this book.
You see, they had put the book away and hidden it from sight because of the deep pain that it caused to all of the older children in the orphanage who had NEVER BEEN CHOSEN.
They knew we had worked so hard on it, but they just didn't want to cause any more pain to the older children who had opened the book and saw the friends they once knew in the orphanage now riding on merry-go-rounds, being hugged by their new siblings, and being dressed in princess gowns with bows and barrettes in their hair.
Oh my heart. I couldn't believe that I had not thought of that, and I was so sad to know that I had caused any of them pain.
Lesson learned in a very hard way.
I just learned something else that has made my heart sad, and it involves Meigan.
I made the mistake of asking if she really wanted to be adopted, since she is now 10.
And I was told that she wants it more than anything.
In fact, since this orphanage now has done adoptions for many years, several families have returned on homeland tours with their older daughters.
Meigan's eyes have followed them the whole time, with a longing that the whole staff could see that she wished SHE could be the one holding onto a mama's hand, and that she could be the one who someone had chosen as their own.
Each time an adoptive family has returned, there is a deep sadness in Meigan's eyes and a feeling that she just isn't good enough to be chosen.
During normal days, she is a happy girl with a smile to melt any heart, but close to the surface is a feeling of, "Why did no one want ME?"
Meigan is ten years old and has the sweetest personality.
She is a loving and gentle little girl, who loves her baby doll and who has the voice of an angel when she sings.
She loves music and playing with her friends.
Meigan was born with a spinal tumor, which was repaired as a baby. She has full range of motion with her legs and is a beautiful dancer.
However, due to a complication with the surgery, she has one health issue that might make her adoption more difficult.
However, many parents have helped their children successfully overcome this issue with treatment by a specialist such as Dr. Pena at Cincinnati Children's Hospital.
It absolutely does not have to stop her from having a full and productive life.
LWB has decided to offer a Tuan Yuan adoption grant for Meigan, in the hope that it will help allow someone to bring her home.
Please help spread the news that this beautiful young girl is waiting, as we know that somewhere out there is the perfect family just waiting for such a sweet daughter.
Meigan has so much to offer this world with her loving and sweet spirit, and we are all praying that her family will soon be found.
Thank you so much for your help!
Amy Eldridge
Executive Director
